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We’re creating a world where children grow up confident and loving themselves—together.

The Growing Up Confident Collective connects you with others who are purposeful about kids’ social and emotional learning. 

When you join, you’ll have access to discussions, activities, and practices designed to expand your fluency in the language of children’s emotions.

You’ll discover kid-friendly ways to talk about and respond to emotions and behaviors so you know what to say and do to create connection, teach new skills, and grow children’s self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and resilience.  

You Belong Here

Our membership is a mix of parents, family members, educators, counselors, coaches, and other helping professionals.

Some of our members work with children between the ages of four and twelve, others are parenting them, and many do both.

This is what we’re creating in the Growing Up Confident Collective… 

We Help Turn Your “Now What?” Into “I Got This.”

The Growing Up Confident Collective makes it easy to get trusted answers to your questions so you have the peace of mind that you’re doing everything you can to emotionally guide your children, students, or clients.

Our exclusive zero-distraction community gives you access to support, connection and conversation without the *squirrel* distraction of a million other things in your newsfeed.

It’s a judgement-free community that values diverse perspectives. We know there is always more than one right approach. We embrace curiosity looking to answer, “What works for this child in this moment?”

You Get Specific and Personalized Support.

You’ll be able to get right-on-time answers to your questions so you can confidently make decisions about how to tend to your growing person’s emotions.

You won’t have to sort through a Google search, wait for Amazon to deliver your book, or schedule an appointment with a professional to get answers to your burning questions.

You get personalized support instead of generic information from whatever Google page you land on that you then you need to sift through to figure out how or if it fits for you in your situation.

You don’t have time to hunt for solutions. You’ll have access to a growing library of resources and activities to teach children emotion regulation skills.

You’ll Have Other Members In Your Corner.

It’s about connection! Tap into awesome brain power, support, and inspiration from counselors, parents, educators, and others who are committed to guiding children through their emotions.

You don’t have to figure this out alone. Having the support of others who “get it” can make all the difference.

The Growing Up Confident Collective is people-powered. We’re not about inundating you with static information. We’re about helping you connect with people so you can work together to untangle your challenges.

You’ll Have Peace Of Mind Around What’s Next.

Children are constantly developing and evolving. You’ll have ongoing support and solutions at your fingertips so you can confidently navigate the ever-changing landscape of children’s emotions.

The tools, strategies, and techniques that help them today may not be relevant tomorrow. After you master one challenge, a new one may emerge.

You’ll have the peace of mind that the Growing Up Confident Collective is there for you whenever you need it.

The Growing Up Confident Collective is where we gather to co-create a knowledge base of real-world experience, practical learning, and creative ideas to guide children through emotions.

Your Member Benefits

A Collaborative Learning Community

The Growing Up Confident Collective is a cozy online conversation space where you can share experiences, contribute to and learn from one another, and gain insights and inspiration.

You’ll have access to the community wherever you go with our iOS and Android app.

Welcome & Orientation Call

Your personal tour of the Collective.

In this one-on-one call, we’ll walk through ways you can get started, get connected, and get answers to your questions so you feel right at home in the community.


Monthly Themes

Every month, based on what members are asking for, we dive deeper into one topic.

Themes include Befriending Anxiety, Anger and Sadness, Letting Go of Perfect, Overcoming Overthinking, and more.

Focused Practices

We know life can be full. So every week, we share a bite-sized yet powerful practice.

We transform information into real-life practices so you have the words to say and a toolbox of strategies to guide children through their emotions.


Kid Zone Activities

A new hands-on activity is added to the Kid Zone resource monthly.

As a member, you’ll be able to download, print, and use the activities to teach social and emotional skills to your children, students, and clients.

Virtual Events

We host themed discussions, book clubs, and online workshops.

You can discover new ideas, gain insights, and enhance your skills while connecting with other members. 

Access to the Growing Up Confident Collective is  $17.99 monthly.  

 Receive two months free when you invest in an annual membership at $179.99 yearly. 

Are you ready to create a world where children grow up confident and loving themselves — together?


What is the commitment? Is it easy to cancel?

You are committing to a recurring monthly or annual, depending on your choice, subscription to the Growing Up Confident Collective. You can cancel your member subscription and leave the Collective anytime. Inside the membership, click the “cancel your subscription” link and your subscription will be cancelled at the end of the current billing period. Easy peasy! 

What is the refund policy?

I’m happy to offer a 30-day money back guarantee. If once you’re inside the Growing Up Confident Collective you decide it isn’t for you, let me know. I’ll gladly refund your membership fee. Just email me at or get in touch with me inside the platform.

Is this for (insert specific age) kids or kids with (insert specific diagnosis)?

The Collective is focused on guiding all kids through emotions and is not dependent on the inclusion or exclusion of specific diagnoses. We celebrate the uniqueness of every child and honor how they are wired.

Our current focus is children ages 4-12. At this time we are not creating resources for infants, toddlers, or adolescents.

Where is the Growing Up Confident Collective hosted? Is it private?

We are not just another Facebook group! The Growing Up Confident Collective is a private community hosted on Mighty Networks. You can access the community easily either on your desktop or through the mobile app. Only members are able to access the content inside.

Can I talk to someone about the Growing Up Confident Collective?

Yes, send me an email at If it’s a quick question, I’ll reply to your email. If it’s a longer conversation, I’ll send you the information to schedule a phone call so we can discuss if the Collective is a good match for you.

Where can I learn more about guiding children through emotions?
In the articles on my website, Growing Up Confident, I share stories, tips, tools, techniques, and strategies about guiding children through emotions. You can learn more there.

Hi! I’m Kim Lange, founder and host of the Growing Up Confident Collective.

I’ve been guiding kids through their emotions for over 23 years… first, as a special education teacher and for the past 19 years as a child and adolescent therapist.

In fact, except for a brief stint as a pizza delivery driver back in the mid 1990’s, every job I’ve ever held has been in service of children and their families.

In 2006, I opened my private practice in the coastal town of Wilmington, NC.

Through my work with my private clients, I created the Calming Compass©, a kid’s coping tool map and subsequently an online program to expand parents knowledge and skills for guiding their children through big emotions.

Why am I sharing this with you? It’s because all of this brought me to today… Me and you “meeting” each other online and talking about the Growing Up Confident Collective.

Writing this to you now, my heart beats a bit faster, as I excitedly search for the words to explain why I started the Growing Up Confident Collective.

I’d be thrilled if we positively impacted one child’s life, but how cool would it be, if together, we impact the world?

Kids need adults who are there with and for them when they are experiencing big emotions.  Adults they can talk to about the hard stuff. Adults who take responsibility for tending to their own emotions and who know how to respond instead of react during challenging moments.  Adults who can model and teach them emotional regulation skills.

What is possible when children grow up to be self-aware, compassionate, emotionally intelligent, and resilient adults?

Let’s create a world where we celebrate the uniqueness of every child. A world where kids can be unapologetically themselves.

A world where kids grow up loving who they are and where their struggles are no longer seen as an indication of their wrongness, but rather a signal that we as adults need to step up, challenge our beliefs, make new choices and provide a new type of support and guidance.

What might’ve been different for you, if this had been your foundation growing up?

You weren’t meant to do this in isolation.

The Growing Up Confident Collective can be your cozy online community where you care for the children in your life, nurture yourself, and find solutions that work for you.

Together, we are creating a world where children grow up loving themselves.

If you want to be part of something that can really create change, I can’t wait for you to join us and get your first peek inside the Growing Up Confident Collective.

See you inside!

Have Questions?  Contact me here.